Step 1: Is there a writer in you?

I have been all over this globe, in ten different countries, in nearly every state in America, and when I tell people I’m an author, nearly every time, someone’s head gophers up from the edge of the room, or from behind the counter, or from the ring in the crowd…and I know…there’s another writer in my midst.  It’s something in their eyes, that inner writer trying to get out. Eventually, if they have the courage, they’ll come forward and instead of saying, hi , how are you or making small talk, I say.  Is there a writer in you?  They’ll give me a little smile, and I know…there’s a writer longing to be set free.

Is there a writer in you? 

Maybe you’re reading this because you’ve been writing all your life, like I have.  I wrote my first novel when I was 14 years old.

  • Maybe you have a file cabinet full of stories you’ve written, or you’ve even sent them off to publishers.
  • Maybe you’ve even gotten one of them published. Maybe you’re a person who writes non-fiction – articles for your church, or magazines, maybe for a local paper.
  • Maybe you’re the girl who volunteers to write the newsletter for your organization or MOPs group.
  • Maybe you’re just the one in the family who also writes the Christmas letter.

I know you – because I’ve been there too.  I’ve done all of those things.  And even though I loved to write, I didn’t really think I was a writer.  That seemed too lofty.  A writer was Hemingway, filled with angst and deep thoughts, and Fitzgerald, with his portrayal of humanity during turbulent times.  I wasn’t Shakespeare, the wordsmith, and Thornton Wilder the ponderer of deep thoughts, and or John
Irving, with his insight into humanity. I was just a girl who had a rich imagination and a few voices in her head.

Do you hear voices?  There may be a writer in you. 

We  all have goals, right? Dreams, desires, hopes that have been niggling at us for years. For aspiring authors, it’s the dream of writing a novel.

  • You’re a writer if every time you hear an interesting job description or read a compelling story in the newspaper, you think, hey, that would make an interesting premise for a novel.
  • You’re a writer if, when you get introduced to someone new, you can’t help but ask about their lives and can barely resist the urge to take out a pen and paper and jot down some notes.
  • You’re a writer if, when you’re reading a novel, you occasionally take a breath and say, wow, I want to write like that.

I never thought I’d be an authorI just let the writer inside walk through one door at a time, until 30 books later, I find myself here.

I thought I’d tell you a little about my journey – and then I encourage you to keep reading through the five questions…they are designed to help you have a chat with that writer inside.  See if he or she has the courage, or the desire to walk through the open doors to see what’s out there.

I love reading – I think all authors should love to read, and I read constantly when I lived overseas, in Russia, while my husband and I served as missionaries.  I soon ran out of books.  However, without knowing it, I had begun to absorb the elements of a good book.  I had also cultivated a desire to write my own stories.  So, one snowy day, I sat down with a story in my head and began to write.  I really had no idea what I was doing, but I knew in my heart what I HOPED to write, and I just followed my heart. After I finished my story – with was about 150K, I had a James Michener epic, way too long that would be only be used as a highchair for my toddler.  However, I HAD finished a book.  And in that, I was a success.

From there, I submitted the book to agents and publishers and got good feedback – one agent suggested I write a much smaller book and see if I could publish that first.  So I wrote a Heartsong, a story
about my grandparents.  And after they looked it over a few times, they published it.  In the meantime, I kept writing, attending online classes, reading books and keeping a journal.  I wrote a novella about an experience I had being trapped in an elevator in Russia, and submitted it to Tyndale.  They bought (much to my great surprise) and then asked me what else I had.  We’re also going to talk about pressing on, and building up what I call your “bullpen.”

When I finally started selling, I sold about eleven books in one year – many of which were already finished.  Which is why, only 7 three years after my first trade book came out, I have over 30 books on the market.

What I learned through that first novel was:

1. Writing a good novel was harder than I thought, and I needed a lot of work.

2. I love to write and was willing to make the journey, whatever it took.

3. Even if I never got published, my writing journey could be used for good in my life.

That was my journey – but everyone has their own journey – I know people who honed one novel for years until they finally found a publisher. Others, like me, wrote book after book, until they finally got it right.  Some authors write one masterpiece and stop – or maybe write one book every five years.  I write three books a year because the ideas just keep coming.

So…how do you discover if there is a writer in you?


Question 1: Who are you?

I’m not talking about your job, or your hobbies – we’ll get to those in a moment.  I mean… what kind of writer are you?

Let’s look at the big picture first.

Are you a writer?   

Would you rather watch a documentary rather than a sporting event?  ESPN versus the History Channel?

How about when you’re in the mall – are you at the electronics’ store….or Barnes and Noble?

A writer will often gravitate toward stories, and the opportunity for imagination.   Do you people watch in a mall?  Do you notice small things – they way people interact with each other?  Do you like thinking about what if’s?  I was in Epcot Center in Florida and I kept thing….what if there was a terrorist attack here?

People say that nothing is safe with a writer, and it’s true –every tidbit of information is opportunity for a story.  People can’t sit down next to me on an airplane without me wanting to know about their

So, the question is:  Who are you? 

Let’s take it further…

Now, Let’s say you ARE the guy who has to stop into Barnes and Noble at least once a week, you know, just to look around.  Where do you go first?  The magazines?  The spiritual section?  How about the sci-fi section, or even romances?  The kind of books we gravitate to, and the kind of books we have on our shelf at home often show us the kind of writers we might be. 

If you were to look at my bookshelf, you’d find some non-fiction, quite a few commentaries, a number of bible studies, and the rest…fiction.

But even more than that, you’d find a lot of contemporary suspense/romance, as well as world war two fiction.  Guess what I’m writing.

So…Who are you? 

Let’s define it a little bit further.  I have this theory – people who are writers are either wordsmith or story-crafters.   You can have leanings toward one or another, but usually you find yourself in one
camp or another.

Test – Make two columns, or add it in your hand. S or W in the other.

I’m going to ask you five questions, and I want you to tally them up.

  1. Would you rather listen to poetry or watch a documentary about a battle. Poetry = W, Battle  =S
  2. Are you more interested in the lyrics of the song, or the singability of a song.   Singability =S, Lyrics – W
  3. Would you subscribe to, or This day in History?  Dictionary = W, History = S
  4. Dead Poets Society, or Star Wars – pick one. Star Wars = S, DPS = W
  5. Gilmore Girls/House, or 24 and Law and Order?  GG/H = W, 24/L&O = S

This is not a definitive test, but if you’re the kind of person who wakes your spouse up in the middle of the night so you can just “read them one line” – you’re a wordsmith.

If you are the kind of person that calls up your friend to tell her the amazing story you just heard on television – you’re a story-crafter.

A wordsmith loves the beats and nuances and meanings of words and how they are used.  A storycrafter loves the drama, the characters and the gripping plots of life.

Storycrafters are often non-fiction writers because they can see the big picture and how the pieces fit together.  A wordsmith is often the fiction writer – they love how the words evoke emotions.

A great novelist is both. But even they would admit to one area of strength.

Why is this important to know –because if you want to let the writer inside out, you’re going to want to know what you do best, and how to hone that, and strengthen the other.  We’ll get back to that in a bit.

Who are you?  That’s your first question. 


 Question 2: What are you? 

Now I’m talking about your  profession, your hobbies, your life.  What makes you interesting?

See, when you first start to write, you’re  going to write about things you know – mostly because the learning curve for  writing for publication is pretty steep and you’ll be spending your time  learning THAT and you’ll need to focus on writing about things you know  well.  However, you’ll still be tapping  into that WHAT as you journey further. Especially if you become a novelist and  have to learn how to write emotions into your character.  You’ll  tap into emotional moments you know personally to help you put them on the  page. 

What are you?

It’s not just what are you know – but what have you been in the past?

What  interesting things have you done, or experienced?

What  kind of life did you live?

On my  list, I have some big ones – I’ve been a missionary to Russia, during that time  I got held hostage, and we had a home invasion. I’ve also travelled to Taiwan  and backpacked around Europe with my children. I grew up in Minnesota, and I’m adopted.  I also lived in the south, which is interesting if you’re a Yankee. I  spent my summers on the north shore of Minnesota, backpacking and
canoeing.  These are all things that I drew on later as I began to write articles and books. 

What are you? 

Try this exercise:  Write 10 things about yourself that you could  write about!

Tkke out a piece of paper, and number it 1-10.  Then, write down 10 unique and interesting things about yourself that you  could possibly use as a springboard for an article, a devotional, or even a

My  first novel was built off the summers I spent on the north shore of Minnesota.  But my first published novella – was taken  from an event where I was locked in the elevator for 2 ½ hours.

So…What are you?  


Question 3:  Where are you? 

I’m  not talking about Fargo, North Dakota, or Kalispell, Montana, or Orlando,  Florida.  I’m talking about where you are in life’s journey.  A lot of times, people want to write, but they
haven’t experienced enough life.  It’s hard to write authentic emotions if you  haven’t experienced some of them.  I  think writers needs to always expand their horizons – try new things, challenge
themselves. I took self defense classes, and joined the theater, and learned how to dance, and jumped from an airplane – all so my experiences might be richer on  the page.

Where are you?

  • Are you in a place in your life where you have something to say about it?
  • Have stopped on your journey to ponder your life, and what it means?
  • Have you looked back and seen truths that you could talk about?

A writer has to be able to  interact with truth in some way, and deliver that into the page in a profound  and meaningful way.  I have often had ideas for books, but not  been ready to write them because I know God had more work to do in me before I could successfully carry that story off.  I needed to grow as a writer, and as a person.  Do you keep a journal of your  life, and what are you learning?  Where are you on your life/spiritual journey? 

Where are you?

What are some truths that God or life is teaching  you right now?  Then, write it down.  Ponder it. Struggle with it.  Great books are written because of great  struggles.   What issues in your life  can you bring to the page?

Try this Exercise: Write 5 issues in your life that you’ve wrestled with in the  past ten years.  These are the themes you  can write about.  

So…Where are you? 


When are you? 

Question 4:  When are you?

I’m not talking about your age here. But when are you in the journey of life? Are you high school student?  Or a  young mom?  Maybe you’re the father of  three, and you have responsibilities to put food on the table and pay the mortgage.  Are you middle aged woman  who’s taking care of her elderly parents?  Are you a retiree?

When are you?

The reason I ask this is  because a writer has to carve out time to write.  It’s takes…time.  And something I call White Space.  Time to think, to mull.  A writer has to be able to shut the door to
others and say please let me think.  Alone.

That’s  hard to do when you’re a mother of small children. I know, I was there.  I first started writing on Saturday mornings  – as a gift to me from my husband.  Sure,  the house was a wreck when I came out of my office but I had my protected  writing time, and that’s what mattered.

When  my children were homeschooling, I worked with them, and then in the afternoon  sent them to their rooms to play for two hours while I wrote.  I remember writing with children on my lap,
reaching around to the keyboard.

When are you?

If you are going to be a writer, you have to find a time to write.  Maybe it’s in the evenings, after the  children go to bed. Maybe it’s on Sunday afternoons.  Maybe it’s early in the morning before work.  Maybe it’s at lunch break.  I don’t know – only you do, but you have to figure out your When.

It can  feel selfish, I know.  I tell my people –  listen, I’m a better person when I write, and they know it’s true, but here’s a  hint that might help with the selfishness.

  1. Share little victories with the  people who believe in your dreams.  I always celebrated with my children when I  finished a chapter – we ate ice cream, or went for a bike ride, or even went swimming.  Whatever it was that made them  feel like they could celebrate with mommy. I also told them that if I was ever published, I would take them to  Disneyworld.  And I kept that promise. Share your victories with your people.
  2. Keep a log of what you are  doing.  In the early days it can feel overwhelming  and fruitless to just type out stuff that may/may not go anywhere.  But you’re working out.  Training.
    Getting stronger.  And you need to  remind yourself of what you’re doing so….get  a spiral notebook, date it, and write down what you did every time you sat down
    to write
    . Then, if someone accuses you of just surfing the internet, you  can say – hey, I was doing research – see? I found out the kind of shoes women  wore in 1942!  More than that, if you set
    goals for yourself as you write, word count, etc, then you can watch yourself  complete those goals.  And it feels good  to complete a goal.

So…When are you?


And finally:  Why? 

Why do  you want to write?

I meet people all the time who  want to make sense of their lives, and they believe that if they just tell  their story, that will complete them.  I don’t disagree that writing is therapy, and  it helps you sort out your emotions and the events in your life. However, when you write, it not unlike  undressing in front of the entire world, because a great story takes pieces of  yourself and lays them out for the entire world to see.

Writing is not the destination.  It’s a journey.   It’s a rich and rewarding journey.  It’s a journey of discovery of who you are, what life’s about, and what God is teaching us in the journey.


It is  true that writers have something to say.  It’s what makes us want to write –  we’ve learned something and we’re compelled to share it with the world.

Even  novels are a journey of the hero and his discovery of some truth.  And that’s a great start.

If  you’re writing a novel, you’ll apply that truth to the journey of your characters in some way.

If  you’re writing an article or non-fiction, you’ll be able to come at it more straightforward.

But  if you are writing ONLY because you have an agenda, then you will burn  out.  Because writing is a lonely, long, and often painful  business.


I meet people who say, “Oh, if I just get published, everything will change.”  Yes, it will.
It will get harder.

  • The  world will look at you differently, with closer scrutiny.
  • The  next thing you write will have to be better, because it will be compared to the  last thing you wrote.
  • You  will be open to the review of and judgment of people who don’t know you, and  don’t know your heart, and they may say cruel things.

Hear me on this – if you are  not satisfied with the person you are before you publish a book then publishing  a book will not complete you.  It will  only make you search further.


(Here’s a hint:  A writer writes because they’d rather write than breathe.)


Who,  What, Where, When, and Why.

Is  there a writer in you?  These are the  questions I want you to ponder.  Because  you need to consider the cost before you start the journey.

Now,  if you are a writer, then next question is:

How do you get started? 

Start  by asking a few questions:

What do you read?  That’s a great place to begin thinking about  what you might write.  I often ask  people…if you could write one thing, what would it be?  That’s another place to start.

What are you?  That list of ten things can help you narrow  your subject further.  Maybe you’re a  reader of mysteries, and you’re a part time scuba diver who travels to Cancun  every summer.  Why not write a mystery  set in a sunken ship off the shore of Acapulco?

Where are you in your life?  Look at your journal, and if you don’t have one, start one.  What truths might you  write about?

When will you write?  Find a place, and buy that logbook.  Sit down with your family and ask them to  support you in this pursuit.

And then, you need to arm yourself with  resources.

  1. Get books in your genre and  dissect them.  What works, and what doesn’t?  How are  they structured?  What are your favorite  things about them?  Keep a writing  journal of your favorite sentences, and your story structure.  A writer reads.
  2. Get some craft books – Check out the MBT Ecommer Store – we have a number of excellent writing prodcuts.  But there are  others:  James Scott Bell Plot and  Structure.  How to grow a novel by Sol  Stein.  Writing the breakout novel by Donald Maas.  Go to your bookstore and  find the writing section. Aw – you already know where it is, don’t you?
  3. Join a writer’s group – Like…My Book Therapy, an  online craft and coaching community where you can read articles and ask  questions.  A local group, like a My Book
    Therapy Huddle will also help – give you immediate support and feedback.
  4. Attend a writer’s retreat.  It’s a great way to get that intensive  writing teaching that will jump start your novel.  I have one in October called the  Storycrafter’s Conference – you come with an idea and you leave with a story –  you learn everything you need to learn to build a novel from scratch. There are  other conferences around the country as well.
  5. Write.  Start writing.  A great writer writes bad stuff, and get  better, and writes more bad stuff, and learns how to improve it.  A book isn’t written, it’s rewritten.  So, write.

Is  there a writer in you?  I hope so.  And if the answer is yes, proceed to Step 2.

Blessings on your journey!

Susie May


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